It's Easter

Still a little dizzy and not recovered yet due to lack of rest. Went to the Home Exhibition yesterday after the birthday party. Today, I've been dragged to the church for the Easter service. I was at Vienna last year Easter. Nel and I love the Easter market there. Wonder when will I get a chance to visit another country Easter market again? :)

Question

What do I want to do with my life? Have you ever thought about this?

I don't know what's the answer. All I know is I'm not very happy and not 100% satisfied with my life right now.

P.S. I'm not gonna start work next week. I've rejected the offer. Again.

梦想婚礼？

从小，朋友们都在想她们要怎样的男朋友和她们的梦想婚礼。

我从来都不参与，也搞不懂为何他们要去想呢？。这是控制不了的嘛。所以，我根本没什么想法。

有些说要在游艇举行，有些说在沙滩举行， 还有公园式婚礼。

我？要简单的！但是也需要依照家人的想法。

他们都说 “随便嘛，这是你的婚礼！” 当你告诉他们你的想法，他们却说这样不行，那样不行！随便？根本就不随便！他们根本没把我的想法听进去。

老公是沙巴人，那沙巴一定要有一场。老爸要在他的家乡举行，老妈要在吉隆坡举行！我是一个没选择权的新娘。筹备的事，我一定要做，想法却是他们的。唉，说到最后，最随便的那个是我！我只是希望不会有人不高兴。

我好希望一切快一点结束，挖一个洞，然后自己钻进去。呵呵 -_-

正说谓，人在江湖，身不由己呀！

梦想婚礼？哪有这回事？

可不可以不举行？答案是不可能！

Light at the end of the tunnel

No worries, there would appear to be some light at the end of the tunnel - Nel said. I've heard it a few times from him. His mindset and able to stay positive no matter what happens always amazes me!

I wish I can be like him. Think positive.

Who knows? You might be able to see some light at the end of the tunnel

Quote

I've heard of this quote ages ago.
I came across this quote again in newspaper today.

"Some people make things happen, some watch things happen, while others
wonder what has happened”

So, there are 3types of people.

Which type are you?

I don't understand

Why human beings are always so judgmental?

I always try not to blog about unhappy life experiences. Why?

First of all, I would like to record all the happy memories here at my blog.
Second, I do not want to recall my hard works, struggles and bad experiences which are ALREADY a past tense. There is no point looking back. I rather learn from mistakes, the testing times instead and move forward.

However, human beings are judgmental.

People judge...

I am very lucky and I get what I want.

I have no idea why people perceive me in this way. I suppose it's because of my cheerful blog entries about my life?? I don't know! Perhaps of the way I present myself?

A man who owns a luxury car, says Mercedes, would people only think that he is so lucky or he must be from a rich family? Have the people ever thought that he might has worked very hard to own it???

The fact that I seldom blog about difficult encounters does not mean I don't have any.
On the other hand, when I make this statement, it also does not imply that I have bad experiences.

Will shallow people ever use another perpesctive to see the world?

The man might has been lucky, but there must be stories behind every success.

雨天

虽然在爱尔兰是一件见惯不怪的事，但还是会令人觉得忧郁和纳闷。

雨后真的会有彩红吗？

Goodbye

My Singaporean colleague has been sacked! My manager said he is not capable enough to be my senior.

That's funny! He has three year experience and actually went through two interview with them. First interview with the manager and second interview with the director. And they can’t even notice he is not capable during the interview?

My colleague just left without saying goodbye to me. Can't blame him anyway, if I were him, I'll be speechless too. No wonder when the receptionist said “See you tomorrow!" He did not reply anything.

Poor thing, hope he will get a job soon.

Moving to Ireland

I’m moving to Ireland. Feel excited and I’m waiting for the moment to come. Soon, I think it will take about 3-4 months. Seriously, I never thought of leaving Malaysia at all. This is the third time, Nelson and I thinking bout it. Since he got the offer, and it's the 3rd time already. Why wait and let the opportunity fly away? And I’m glad that we had decided. Hope everything will be fine.